{"id":49,"date":"2018-10-30T10:48:53","date_gmt":"2018-10-30T10:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asl-law.com.sg\/?p=49"},"modified":"2018-10-30T10:48:53","modified_gmt":"2018-10-30T10:48:53","slug":"what-you-need-to-know-about-adultery-before-filing-for-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.asl-law.com.sg\/what-you-need-to-know-about-adultery-before-filing-for-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"What You Need To Know About Adultery Before Filing For Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By definition, adultery refers to voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another person who is not his or her spouse. In the context of filing for divorce from your spouse on the basis of adultery, there are a few things that you need to take note of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are two elements that need to be fulfilled. Firstly, there has to be proof that adultery has been committed and secondly, the plaintiff has to prove that this act has made it intolerable to live with the defendant. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how does one prove adultery? And what are the options available to him\/her to file for divorce on the grounds of adultery?<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most important question that needs to be asked is, <\/span><b>was there sexual intercourse &nbsp;between the defendant and the third party?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sexual intercourse in this case refers to penetration.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Was the sexual intercourse committed with a member of the <\/span><b>opposite sex?<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As long as sexual intercourse has been involved, it is adultery. However, if the defendant and third party had only remained intimate through text messages, phone calls or even physical contact but falling short of actual penetrative sex, then it cannot be defined as such although it could be used as indirect evidence to prove adultery.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondly, the definition of adultery in law only applies to the defendant and a third party of the opposite sex. This means that if the third party is of the same sex as the defendant, it\u2019s not considered adultery and therefore, not the appropriate grounds to seek divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Certain components need to be fulfilled for divorce to be filed on the basis of adultery.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Upon discovery of the adulterous relationship, the plaintiff <\/span><b>must not continue<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> living together with the defendant for six or more months. This means divorce proceedings must be made as soon as the plaintiff has confirmed suspicions that his\/her spouse has committed adultery.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both plaintiff and defendant have to be married for <\/span><b>three or more years<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. However, in a case where they are married for a period much shorter than that, it is highly recommended to engage a <\/span><b>specialist divorce lawyer<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to get further advice as there may be the possibility that the court might grant divorce even if the marriage hasn\u2019t reached the three year mark.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides proving adultery, the plaintiff will also need to prove that he or she is unable to continue living with the defendant. To determine this, the court will need to consider if a reasonable person in the plaintiff\u2019s position would find it intolerable to live with the defendant. Assessments will also be made by the court regarding the personalities and circumstances unique to the parties. To better understand what this means, speak to a specialist divorce lawyer who will advise you accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once adultery is proven, the court may order the defendant to pay for the cost of the divorce proceedings and if a private investigator had been hired throughout this process, the court may order the defendant to pay for the private investigator\u2019s fees too. However, this is up to the court\u2019s discretion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Our Criminal Lawyer, Mr Amarjit Singh Sidhu, has defended numerous clients over the years over a wide variety of offences. With vast experience in Singapore\u2019s laws, Mr Amarjit Singh Sidhu will be able to provide valuable and timely advice for your situation. For more information, or if you have been caught in a similar situation, feel free to <a href=\"https:\/\/asl-law.com.sg\/contact-us\/\">contact us<\/a> for a consultation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do you need to know if you want to file for a divorce on the grounds of adultery? 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